I want to get a bike but everyone tells me that it's a matter of time before I die on it
A lot of that is up to you. It is borderline criminal to sell 180 hp 1000cc sport bikes to 20-year-old kids who lack experience, sound judgment, and self control. But... there is a lot that you CAN control to mitigate your risk and keep yourself “safer”:
1. I began my two-wheel journey with an accredited motorcycle safety class—even an experienced rider will pick up a few tips that help you anticipate danger.
2. ALWAYS wear the gear—buy the best full-face helmet you can afford; but I also don’t get on the bike without an armored jacket, gloves, and boots. Dress for the slide, not the ride!
3. Ride YOUR ride. Gotta leave the ego at home, and never outride your own skill level (or your sight line). I hear about people getting in trouble trying to keep pace with more experienced/skilled riders. Now that I’m i. my 40’s, that is no longer a temptation.
4. ZERO alcohol before or during.
Riding a moto is far more dangerous than driving a car (even one weighing less than 2500 lbs.). There are a lot of factors that you can’t control, but there are many that you can control—you choose where, when, and HOW you ride. Respecting the machine and the danger that is always present goes a long way to getting home safe every time.